What's On My Mind
by A.J. Kohlhepp
Squash  /  Class

March 27, 2014

Tucked away in a remote corner of the squash facility at Middlesex School, which recently played host to the New England Interscholastic “B” Tournament for girls, is a plaque. This plaque, attributed to an author known only as “Norwood” – the Middlesex athletic department has uncovered no further details regarding his background – sets forth a concise credo regarding athletics:

A game is to be played for the game’s sake, and it matters not a button whether it is won or lost, so long as both sides play their best.  No unfair advantage of any sort can ever be taken, and within these rules no mercy is to be expected, or accepted.   The lesson to be learned by each individual is the subordination of self in order that he may render his best service as the member of a team.  Finally, never on any account must he show the white feather.  If games can be played in that spirit, they are a magnificent preparation for life.

Norwood’s athletic ethos harkens back to the traditional precepts underlying such august institutions as Eton School in England.  The sons of the English aristocracy underwent training at the hands of Eton’s legendary masters in order both to recognize their own privileged position in English society and to subjugate their own selves within the larger social milieu.  The cricket pitches and racket courts and polo grounds of the elite boarding schools were conceived of as the training facilities for order and discipline on the battlefields of Waterloo or Verdun. 

Small surprise then that the value system espoused on Norwood’s plaque still echoes in the mottos and mission statements of many independent boarding schools in the United States, the oldest of which, built around the English model, still cling zealously to those prestigious trappings.  The Latin motto of my own school – pro vita non pro schola discimus – translates to “for life, not for school, we learn.”  What Norwood declared in terms of the values of athletic endeavor on the field, or the rink, or the court, we now espouse with regard to the student experience in the classroom.

One wonders, of course, whether that sense of patriarchal certainty or “noblesse oblige,” so scrupulously cultivated in boarding schools of the past, remains applicable today, given how much those schools, and our society, have changed.  Boarding schools that provided a separate educational experience for scions of the New England establishment now actively seek diversity, as much for the cause of economic survival as for some kind of inherent moral good. 

As Suzanne Mettzler has pointed out in a recent New York Times blog, higher education is now a “great unleveler” in the United States:  “Higher education is becoming a caste system, separate and unequal for students with different family incomes. Where students attend college affects their chances of graduating and how indebted they will become in the process.”  The soaring costs of elite colleges and universities, coupled with predatory lending practices and plunging graduation rates at community and for-profit colleges, means that the higher education system exacerbates, rather than diminishes, the gap between the wealthiest and neediest Americans in terms of their socioeconomic outlook.

In an interesting manner, this trend toward stratification is reflected within the ranks of prep school squash; unlike the higher education system, however, U.S. prep school squash represents real promise in this regard. The amazing mentoring and coaching work done at urban squash programs throughout the U.S., coupled with the additional academic and life-skills education received at independent schools, puts the least and most fortunate squash players on a more equal playing field than in many other sectors of American life. In other words, as opportunity in America becomes little more than a dream for the majority of the population, the squash court provides a means of access for the least fortunate.

To see these seismic shifts in action, you might have stopped by Middlesex (or any of the other five host schools for the various brackets of the New England tournament) on the weekend of February 22-23.  Fifteen different independent schools, comprising the middle tier of girls’ New England prep squash, competed at Middlesex over the course of two days.  A wide range of ability was on display, from very accomplished players to eager neophytes.  A similar range of socioeconomic background could also be glimpsed if you looked beyond the standard equipage of squash players. My own team features girls from all strata, from those whose second homes in Litchfield County could sleep our entire team comfortably, to those for whom $100 to replace a racquet represents a real burden. 

The key component to the diversification of the squash-playing population lies in the urban squash movement, now almost twenty years old. Urban squash in America was born in areas with traditional squash connections -- Boston, New York and Philadelphia – but has spread south and west in an impressive manner. A recent Huffington Post article documented the growth to 15 programs across the country, currently servicing approximately 1,400 inner-city youth.  Another four urban squash programs are currently in the works with assistance from the National Urban Squash and Education Association, which contributes to the movement by “identifying best practices, creating forums to share ideas, and providing grants and other financial support.”
   
According to Julie Greenwood, executive director of Squash Haven, “Students and their families become aware of different types of educational environments (including private schools) and opportunities than their peers.”  Having gained entry into those formerly exclusive institutions, the urban squashers “develop relationships with peers and adults from far different socioeconomic, geographic, racial, and other backgrounds than their own,” further enhancing their curiosity about different experiences and different environments.

Jose Rivera, a graduate of Berkshire School and Bates College, has seen this scenario from both sides.  He realized early in his tenure as a Squashbuster that, “I was able to learn about private schools and colleges, believing that maybe I could become a part of that world and it wouldn’t be a fantasy any longer.”  Rivera also notes that squash has brought him into contact with many amazing friends over the years;  not only that, but “every single job I have applied for has been through a squash connection.”  Rivera feels immense satisfaction to be giving back to the same dynamic organization that facilitated his own journey, for he now serves as a full-time coach and mentor at the Northeastern-based program: “At the end of the day, we help our students become well-rounded citizens who feel empowered.”       

That is not to say that the urban squashers integrate seamlessly into their new environments.  The boys and girls who find their way out of the inner cities to the pastoral campuses of elite boarding schools often face severe culture shock upon arrival.  Given that many of them come from, and return to, difficult dynamics on the home front, boarding school can often seem more like an escape from their realities rather than a newfound avenue toward opportunity.   And the overall numbers are pretty small, of course, as there are a limited number of roster spots on a finite number of independent school squash teams. 

The other key scarcity is funding.  The dollars are simply too few, as we are reminded with each admissions cycle at independent schools.  In addition, the urban squashers who find their way to prep schools have been joined by increasing numbers of international players, a trend familiar to anyone who has followed collegiate squash in the past two decades.  The boys from Avon-Old Farms just won a U.S. High School championship on the strength of three terrific Egyptian nationals (as well as a New England Class A title), and more and more prep school teams now boast at least one international player.  One fears that, in the zero-sum games of admissions and financial aid at American independent schools, these two categories of players will be increasingly pitted against one another as schools trying to quantify the “impact” of inner-city U.S. minorities versus international athletes on their campuses. 

The last matches I was privileged to watch at New Englands, as my own team had finished their efforts, showed this diversity in microcosm.  The third and fourth place match within the #2 flight saw a New Haven urban squasher-cum-Suffield Tiger locked in mortal combat against an upper-middle-class suburbanite from host school Middlesex.   As this duo battled their way toward extra points in the fifth frame (the host player won 14-12), the #1 flight came to a glorious end in similar fashion, with an international player (a native of Guyana, the lesser-known powerhouse of Caribbean squash) competing for St. George’s against a suburban club player from St. Luke’s. 

All four players exhibited the highest levels of skill and sportsmanship, and crowd supporting them echoed their great spirit.  It was easy to enjoy this pinnacle of school-girl squash and to reflect upon the merits of our sport, but it also occurred to me to think back on old Norwood’s athletic values.  For two of these competitors, their means to socioeconomic access came with their birth, and squash simply provides a means to demonstrate their own individual excellence, or perhaps, given the increasingly anxiety-ridden college application process for even the wealthiest Americans, some additional level of leverage.   In other words, half of these competitors were already winning long before they stepped on the court.  (As it happened, the two players from wealthier backgrounds also proved winners on the day, though a couple of bounces here or there could have reversed those results.)

But for half of these contestants, squash has already changed their lives.  One from inner-city New Haven and one from out-of-country Guyana, neither of whom would have had access to New England boarding schools or elite American colleges without the sport of squash.  In the closing moments of the New England “B” tournament, the bigger questions were distilled into the smallest, most measurable increments, one swing at a time.  Although the stakes were, in a certain sense, higher than he could have imagined; even if their life stories and physiognomies were outside the pale of his experience; Norwood, wherever he was, would surely have recognized the pure commitment on the part of these athletes.   Prep school squash, with its distinctive admixture of tradition and innovation, privilege and opportunity, remains “magnificent preparation for life.” And maybe, just maybe, prep school squash provides access to a wholly different kind of life than many of its practitioners could have dreamed up for themselves.



About the Author:
 
A.J. Kohlhepp first picked up a squash racquet at Trinity College (before the Bantams’ perennial championships commenced).

An English teacher by trade, he has coached boys’ and girls’ squash over the past dozen years in addition to various other duties at Berkshire School (Massachusetts USA), where he resides about 100 meters from the squash courts, with his wife (a real writer) and children (beginning squashers).


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